The moral of the this comic is quite simple, “Never teach someone with ADD the art of ‘active listening.'”
Actually, I have had a couple of people tell me how witty I am in the past couple of months. Other folks have remarked that they find me “funny.” These are designations which I actually find I’m unworthy to have placed on me. When I’m in public, especially when I’m in a situation where there is some sense of being closed in (such as in a meeting), the truth is I feel emotionally stressed and extremely insecure. When I’m in a reasonably healthy state of mind, those feelings get handled by blurting out one-liners or chuckling at the proceedings. I do this not for the benefit of others, I do it for my own. It’s a survival instinct which allows me to remain in a place where it might otherwise be considered a terrible faux pas to run away from in abject terror.
That, and often times I find I’m really not paying attention.
I wonder if most “witty” people are similarly insecure in close-quarters and are using a similar defense strategy. Perhaps professional comedians are just terribly insecure folks who make their social weakness a career choice.
Whoa! This is so on point. Wes, as somebody who knows you pretty well, I agree. You are not typically witty. (Just like you are not your typical Baptist) But you can be a stitch sometimes. It’s just you being you. And that’s good. It’s called authentic.