Merry Christmas everyone.
We had a fairly decent Christmas Eve worship last night (positive critiques aside – you’re helping to plan next year Mel!), after that we came home and crashed. We get a lot of invites from the various open houses that people host each Christmas eve, but we never go. Mostly because by the time worship is over the kids are wiped and I’m ready to fall asleep, but also because if we went to one we’d feel that we were under obligation to pop in at the others as well. I’m not very politically astute, but even I know that.
This morning the kids got us up early and we just enjoyed a comfortable day at home with our immediate family, and my wife’s folks and brother. A large part of me wishes that our congregation gathered for worship on Christmas. A smaller part of me is glad because if we gather for worship I expend a ton of energy by forcing myself to be in front of the crowd – which would kinda wipe me for the rest of the day. So, a quiet day at home isn’t so bad despite my liturgical impulses. There’s something to be said for sabbath.
Yes, I did get lots of “stuff” (folks who follow me on Twitter already know some), some of it was even useful for my work with Central and ABCNJ – and this makes for some fun. This year, especially, I felt extremely humbled by the fact that so many folks from the Central Baptist community go out of their way to give gifts to me and mine. People’s thoughtfulness to me, for all of my inner-fears that I’m an abject failure, helps me sense that there actually is some good things going on around here. Thanks a lot.
Some of my most favoite gifts this year (from family and from the congregation) were:
- Photoshop Elements. I love the GIMP, but I hate X11 on OS X
- A new bluetooth headset – I can’t wait to try a call in the car with the windows down
- Wii Music – people say it’s lame, I say it’s dang fun and the family will be playing much music!
- Various Star Wars Ornaments – we actually have a tree from my wife’s college dorm-room that has nothing but Star Wars ornaments on it now, keep ’em coming guys!
- The two best “big” movies to come out in 2008 – you figure it out.
- Much coffee – yum!
- My son got a killer Star Wars Lego Set – on of the Republic Walkers from the Clone Wars.
- An actual, real-like, “Charlie Brown” Christmas tree, I kid you not. I will have to make try hard not to kill this. We’ve killed members of the cactus family though, so don’t hold your breath. Still, its cute.
Now, I’m blogging and uploading photos while other people put shelves together. There are days where the stress just melts away from me, this was one of them.
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Christmas eve worship was great, your meditation was thoughtful, and the candlelighting was beautiful (although whoever was working the lights could have turned them off a bit sooner, but, oh well!). Glad you had a good Christmas day, I am sure you and your family needed it. And I have another “cheesy starwar figurine” for the collection, you’ll get it sunday. As for Christmas worship, I would have the same conflict, public worship on Jesus’ birthday would be awesome, but it would cause strain on the mellowness that allows for good family time, something that , at least we, rarely get now, with everyone older and doing their own thing. So I’m kinda glad we don’t.
I’m in agreement with the mellowness – but it’s a conflict for me internally, it’s a “holy day” and we don’t worship together.
Just make sure you water the tree when it gets dry. If it makes it long enough for spring it should grow a bit and will hopefully gain some mass. In the occasion it doesn’t it may need a bigger pot. I can’t remember if it’s a fir or spruce. I think fir. Either way it’s not a pine tree. There are lots of resources on growing things so just find some for general care and such. 😀